Friday, May 28, 2010

She’s not even on my level; the cheating shock factor

It’s always a super big blow to almost any woman who encounters the sideline chick her man was cheating with. Most women can’t grasp the downward slide so I'm going to break it down:

Women normally up cheat:
It’s much easier for a woman to cheat up than it is for man, simply because if a dude won’t bun you, it damn sure don’t mean he won’t fuck you and fuck you on the regular. I’ve hit more than my fair share of women that weren’t relationship material in my time knowing damn well they weren’t girlfriend material the entire time. I’m not the only guy; men across the map live for the easy bucket BKA, the women already in the relationship trying to step out. Sex with no strings attached is so hot in the streets from a man’s perspective.

Men normally cheat down:
Unless he’s dealing with a chick that’s cheating herself it’s very unlikely for a dude to cheat parallel or even upgrade from his current mate in an ongoing affair. Most guys will find a chick slightly (sometimes way) below his normally dating standards that’s willing to go with the dumb shit he’s bringing to the table (like the dream about being single or on the verge of breaking up with your girl when it’s become obvious that’s not the case). Her self-esteem, income or education levels are normally low as well and sometimes it’s all 3.

She does the things you won’t do or the things you don’t do anymore:
Its several perks to having a sideline chick, because they are normally super slutty i.e. she just might give you head while you stand at the bar in a nightclub and it’s no way in hell your girl would do something like that. Oh yeah, the sideline is always ready to give up that becky; in the drive thru, in the movies, sitting in the house watching the game she down for swallowing them kids. She’s always in the mood to get it popping no foreplay needed. And what type girl is that? The type of girl that is eager to please because she is just happy to have him around period so she’ll do what she has to do to keep him there.

No Drama:
With good-looking women come issues. It seems like the better she looks the more issues and the reverse can be said of the less attractive woman. Yeah, that’s all no examples or further explanation needed.

He cheats with lesser females because it’s easier
Jean DeGrate has spoken

1 comment:

  1. Valid statements my dude..And to be honest that sideline chick in alot of cases aint even gotta be super slutty..Sometimes she's really the better quality woman. She's down to cook, clean, and atleast attempt to be submissive b/c at this stage in her life she understands that its clearly not her looks that is gonna keep a man considering there are way badder joints walking right past her front porch..It be a lot of the pretty chicks who feel like they look to good to come subject to a man and wanna play that beyone miss independent role..Even the sex, like you said alot of times that side piece is extra slutty and to be real alot of times that main piece is so damn pretty that she to busy tryna be cute during sex to go all out. Niggas aint tryna hear that once clothes go off and lights go out. So niggas downgrade with a sidechick who makes up for what she lacks but keep that main joint b/c attractive is attractive and when everybody from him to his patnas to other women know his girl is bad, its a good look on his behalf. The blogs still on point as usual!

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