You have her contact info. You’re on her line. Maybe even have one or two dates under your belt but she isn’t necessarily enthusiastic about anything about you. It’s a vast assortment of reasons why she isn’t feeling you yet and possibly will never feel you and most of it has nothing to do with you. Let’s get into it.
Off top this isn’t 1998. Getting a woman’s phone number isn’t half the feat it used to be. I’ve had several female homies exchange number with dudes just so they can go away only to block them moments later. It’s a cold game and dudes are extra persistent. Like ridiculously persistent. It’s a thin line between eager and thirsty and that line is exclusively determined by her perception. You ever seen one of those romantic comedies where a young lady is at the bar then rolls up on a random dude asking him to pretend to be her boyfriend to escape the guy that just can’t take a hint? You do? I’ve been the pretend boyfriend on at least 3 occasions and stumbled into some cheeks because of it once. Thank you thirsty dude. But for the sake of this blog let’s pretend you got her contact info because she was as a minimum 25% interested in you at that moment you shot your shot. Cool? Cool.
Women are famous for forgetting what they like about men
You ever see a woman bashing her ex; hating every fiber of his existence? You ever ask her “well damn what did you see in him to start with’? You ever get that wildly vague response like “he had a good job and his teeth were white”? You know something so generic that if you were on a crowded subway platform you could point out 20 guys that fit that build? True story; I know 3 women that have kids by guys that had “good government” jobs as their crowning achievement. Now that’s a guy that she’s spend some serious time with and been intimate with; so the guy she met at happy hour Monday after the 2nd Cîroc and cranberry isn’t going to standout at all.
Women hate dating and traditionally find men annoying
It’s really amazing that half of the human race gets offered free food, drinks and entertainment from the other half of the human race but aren’t remotely enthused about it. Unless it stops of course. Women love to be wanted but are hardly ever motivated to entertain those fascinated parties. It’s a woman reading this right now that has already turned down 3 dates for Saturday with no plans at all. She has no interest in dating until you find a way to break thru and prove yourself other than annoying but that’s a hell of a hat trick and most men never make it pass their text messages being left on read.
Women don’t trust men
Men are a tricky bunch and we tend to have a motive in the way we move. And by “a tricky bunch” I mean we trying to trick women out of that pussy; just in case that got lost in translation. Even if you have the most earnest intentions the last 20 guys before you in your same position didn’t so you’ll have a pretty interesting time trying to set yourself apart from the crowd. It’s so many guys that were interesting, charming and a breath of fresh air in comparison to the other guys she’s come across lately then BOOM..
Popped up with a live in girlfriend
Had 3 secret children
Sent an unsolicited dick pic
Lives in his grandmother’s basement
Or whatever else that just pops up out of the blue to make her take an immediate step back and block his everything. Now you have to trying to climb over this mountain of bullshit that the guys before left in your path plus the last 3 nightmare dating stories her girlfriends told her.
Somebody else has her attention
If she’s checking for another dude/fucking another dude you’re on the injury reserved list. It’s very little you can do to change that. It’s all on the dude to fuck up and make room for you to slide in; if you’re even next up.
Ok somehow someway you made it thru to the other side (you probably won’t but let’s keep this on the glass half full energy). Don’t fuck this up.
You think she’s playing games but she’s really not checking for you
Jean DeGrate has spoken
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