5 Immediate and Crystal Clear Signs She Is NOT Checking For You

We men folk can be rather dense when it comes to the subtle and also not subtle hints members of the fairer sex may drop upon us. I know more time than not women aren’t always direct with their intensions towards us and their lack of interest; so it’s up to us to decipher when it’s time to fade away before we get the title of being lame and become a running joke for her and her close confidants. So here we go…

1. If you request a picture and she refers you to a social media account
First and foremost, women hate a “Send me a picture” guy, unless she likes you. If she likes you she’ll probably send you a random selfie or two just because. Now if you’re not lucky enough to already be in the “like” arena and your proposition is countered with “Just go to my IG” she’s not checking for. Don’t waste anymore of your unlimited text messaging efforts on her. Delete her contact info. Delete the text thread. Unfollow her on all social media and swiftly push any knowledge of her existence out of your head.

2. If every time you call her she has to call you right back but never does
She cares enough not to hit the end button but not enough to let you ring to voicemail and some women are very courteous like that. Whenever your info flashes across her caller ID instead of hitting the ignore button she picks up only to tell you “Can I call you right back?” she’s not about you. Stop calling. Stop texting. Just stop all together.

3. If she always has plans
You text on Tuesday trying to line something up for Saturday and she has to get back to you on that but never does. You call her on April 5th because it’s an epic 2 day Wine Festival on Memorial Day weekend and you need to get the tickets ASAP before they sellout but she’s out of town that weekend judging a pencil fighting competition in Pensacola Florida. You send her a Facebook invite to a cookout and she immediately declines if she even acknowledges it at all. She’s not checking for you and probably regrets giving you her contact info.

4. If she doesn’t respond to you on social media
You comment on her pictures on IG even when she posts memes from months ago. You say clever shit on her Facebook status updates. No matter what you do her response is always “crickets” but she’s blatantly interacting with others. Close up shop and move on brother. You’re in the sunken place.

5. If she indirectly insults you
She loves men with a clean cut but you have dreds. She prefers guys 6’2 and up but you’re 5’9. She likes a man that’s able to fix things with his hands but you’re a CPA and learned how to change a flat tire from watching a YouTube video. She’s vocal about the things she likes in men but most of those things don’t correlate to you? You’re not the exception to the rule. You’re the guy that she’s killing time with until Mr. 6’2 slides up on her at the next after work happy hour. You’re in the friendzone and you don’t even know it. Get out.

It’s not you; it's her, because she’s the one not checking for you
Jean DeGrate has spoken